Chris Bedard The Man Who Never Existed

This is a warning to anyone who meets this guy, or found this Perelman by accident or knows this guy. He is a first class A-1 con. In his eyes the victim in all his situations. I’ve known through 3 relationships. There was M.Mc he was the nicest, most up standing guy, took care of himself, mentally, emotionally, physically. Had no problem calling a spade a spade. Kind, loving , caring, clean. His next relationship with T.B he was in middle of relapse, but trying to get on the straitb path with someone he should not have spoke his sht out to. That’s were I was stupid and got involved. Not because I liked him but because I didn’t agree with what P.s ways doing saying all of it. Before P.S what talking sht I was upfront to him about T.B what she was saying what I had said to her and my advice to him was. Straits up dumb her she’s playing you, cheating. That was my mistake. I didn’t know him well should have kept my nose out of it. I really should of. Over time we I thought best friends. He came and visited me everyday for Ike 3 to 5 weeks I can’t remember how long exactly it was , he was the one who told me aboutP.s cheating and that I wasn’t crazy. P.s convinced me I was. That’s where I started to trust in him. Then roommates. He was an awesome roommate, we began which I guess was my side we became closer as friends I thought he had respect for me because I was having a bad night fixing with the ex, I knocked on his door. I didn’t want anything sexual I just wanted to beside someone who I knew wouldn’t be with me I didn’t want to be alone that night. He came out in his underwear and said no because of something farts. Then came out later and said he was worried it get sexual, making it awkward between us. Little did I know it was a few things but one i know for sure the sexual thing was a lie. I know I’m not pretty sexy on on the cute scale. But when he said it make things awkward respect started coming more into play with me. P.s desired I believe chris was getting in the way of nothing between him and I at this point. Nothing to do with Chris everything to do with him, himself. But Chris unfortunately got the wrath of my ex and out of our apartment P.s kicked him out. At least I voiced and was able to give chris his rent back. Why I let that happen because P.s was a nully who mentally screwed with me. It took me by surprise to I wasn’t sure how to react it wasn’t till the next day I list it. .s says it was about me no never was hit all had to do with Chris’s ex T.B. P.s wanted to fuk he so bad. He’d get out of bed at all times to bring her smokes or go with her to pay her dealers. When I relapse. He took my paraphernalia in to the cops to try to get them to take figure prints.i digress. I fought on Chris’s defence.non stop. Against any one especially P.s, T.B, N.B, B.S, M.S. I saw him through different eyes. We stayed friends . I saw him drive acccross a parking lot we hadn’t talkEd or seen one another for a long period of time. That day I knew there was my one and only. He is the one I was meant to be with. I was right but in such a bad way. We talked over the phone for month. Then I said the worst thing. I told him how I felt. Biggest mistake of my like. He because my fantasy that now is real life nightmare I can not wake up from. We made plans to move from Vic to a small town with my ex we wouldn’t have a chance. Chris changed the fast months of being together. P.s did everything he could do would do to lie anything to get into between us. This is where the victim comes with Chris. I got a new phone before I had a chance to block numberP.s he calls I didn’t know the number I answer he fights with me I defend. Chris gets made gives my the silent treatment I try to get him to talk, I wake up with him choking me and punching me in the face. A couple of times. Once on the bed, then one the floor, I don’t even remember the first time. Yes I did go after him with a bat. He says I connect I don’t think I did, the the places he said I connect no marks. Then he shot me with a mental ball BB gun, then proceeds to punch me a couple of time. Police were called by upstairs neighbours. He told the cops icame at him first, he told his sister so she would make Assuredly for him that I also attract him first. The sister I can understand but he told everyone that. I can see why but this comes from a guy who does lie. He was telling people that who didn’t even know the inccedent hapoened. People who didn’t a couple did because I was told, he was saying it how he went to jail but he was defending himself ya no. The first hit knocked me out. I don’t remember it. After he got out there was a week on name calling of me, then about days after that I get a text saying you still my baby right. Stupid me said yes. He knew me he had me had me at that. This what he does, did to me I hope I’m the only one I don’t think I am. p.s rats chris out Valentine’s Day. Swat shows bad cop pulls me out of my house by my arm leaves bruises. Chis no doulbt hides I deny he’s there dog get threatened to get thrown in. Chris comes out. Coward that P.s is gett the 16 year old boy to say he tatted chris out.P.s couldn’t man up he got a kid to take the blame. Threats of boy, of girls started bodily harm threats. We took those with a stride I know to many people who would never let it happen and if it were to happen they would go to who ever put it out. Chris and I make up. B.S and boy gets drunk trashes jeep. Chris can’t work much middle of winter Jeep is fuked can’t drive it, he’s doesn’t have money an extra income because I feel guilt I cover rent food paid deaths will call them.three months. No questions asked. But I got blamed for the Jeep. He Connor consider or admit it may have happened because he beat me up my B.S was pissed and did it to pay him back for what he did to me. I had nothing to do with it but my fault it was done. My fault P.s tatted on him. Nothing I was so in love with him. Anything that would lose him I wouldn’t think of doing. He found out he was so he say sick early August September I find a message from a low life junkie hoe, I can say junkie cuz I am one or was. I owe you a hump. Really if he wasn’t fuken her why would she say that. I believed. I believed in him. I wanted to believe in us. There was never an us. He swore he never sleep with anyone his daughters age ya that junkie how his daughters age. He’d break up with before cheating um no, he would never treats any one that he loved or care about I was treated ya so far three for three. He kept coming home and saying he wanted to work this out. No it was because he got tired of paying hotel room junkie dirty goes or expensive floozys. He stopped touching me the same time he got sick. As it went on, not allowed in his truck unless he cleaned out in the morning first, found condown in laundry, come home smelling shower clean not just clean close. Ge would say he’d do something he wouldn’t. But if I got mad which took a long time before I blew ged turn make me feel bad, it was my fault, he everything was me. He’d tell his friends his browns who don’t know me thinks I’m fuken psycho crazy don’t know me to trust me or not but don’t trust me. I’m not even sure his friends know we were. Together or not he would come home if he did 130/400 in the morning when he ce home and wasn’t fallen in his trucks sites. Get up 7/730 to go to work. One time he left at 630 to start work early in oak bay on a saturday, the same morning or that the junkie scuzzy hoe okay Montana messages home “awake baby” want to get to get her. Meet up”. No I’m not stupid at all. Yes I am I let him lie and do this because I thought honestly if I did he believe of loving and he want to no be me again. I wasn’t this went on for a could of years the birch wasn’t she went off to the next guy that had more money was younger a lot younger. Only call chris needs something. He made sure he break me he did. I will never trust myself to trust another guy or someone like that again.the shtty thing is this is how fuked up I am. I still try to justify what he did how he treated me everything not to be his fault. You don’t do what he did to some you love. 1sr: very old pic of him on hookup site while we are together 2.text saying fellge fuk dirty this on our bed cuz he was mad 3: not whoever we were together or at least I thought we were in my eyes we. Were 4 me the stupid one