Persida Desarden

Persida Desarden.Beware of Persy also known as Persida Desarden. She was lying to everyone, while apologizing. Her Husband at the time, Ken, placed an app on their computer that recorded the voice over the internet phone calls Persy made and it also recorded her emails or other sneaky messages she made.
Below please notice the email chain. In it she apologizes over and over and insists that she isn’t going to keep calling, emailing and seeing Mitch. But we know that just at the time she was insisting that should would stop the adultery, she was committing adultery, and splitting up two families:
Hi Persy,
I tried to call you but you were not available. I really need to talk with you. I’ve been very troubled by everything that is happening.
I can’t sleep or eat. I love Mitch very much and really want the chance to work things out with him. When you call, email, or see him it makes it very hard. Can you please consider my feelings and my children. I’m worried about them. Broken families are hard on kids. I read research that says it causes permanent damage to them and causes emotional instability. I don’t want that for my children. Pleaseunderstand. Please! Please!
By the way, I didn’t mean to give you a mean look at church. I have just been very stressed out and troubled. Can you understand that?
Thank you,
Diane
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Diane,
I tried to call you but no one answered. Probably you don’t want to talk with me and I don’t blame you.
I am very and truly sorry for the pain and suffering that I have inflicted you and your family for the past months and weeks. I’m sorry, how do I make it right? I know that the best thing that I can do for now is to stay away from Mitch and your family and that’s what I’m planning to do.
I’m very sorry about the incident at camp meeting too. I know that Matthew didn’t mean to hurt Faith. I think that Matthew is a great boy and Faith loves him very much. I hope they can still see each other and play together at church. They should not have to pay the consequences of my actions. I’m planning to stay at home every Saturday, that way you and your family can go to church without feeling uncomfortable.
I think that you have been more than patient with me and I want to thank you for that.
Again, I’m sorry. I hope that this wrong doing of mine doesn’t cause more damage to your marriage, your future or your happiness. I wish you and your family the best.
Persy
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Persy,
No, I don’t want to talk with you!
I’m not sure if my marriage will ever recover. What I really don’t understand is why Mitch would think that you could provide him with what he thinks I’m incapable of providing. Sure you and I are different in many ways, but at least I am a stable person, seldom if ever fickle with only one personality. I believe that Mitch is very confused and down right now. I hope he is finally coming to grips with what it would be like to be stuck with you. So please stay away from him. You really want to make things right? Then work things out with Ken, he doesn’t seem to mind your condition, or even realize that you have a condition.
I clearly remember your extreme view that Faith “could have died” at the hands of Matthew. You are the kind of parent that no teacher likes to have to deal with. You, and Ken as well, enjoy overreacting. Nevertheless, I don’t see any harm in letting them play together at church. They love each other and generally speaking there are adults around just in case someone gets hurt.
My hope is that you didn’t push Ken too far and that he is willing to take you back. I hope that you two work out your own problems. That should keep you busy. Then there will be no need for me to worry that you are trying to convince Mitch that things could be “dreamy” if only the two of you were together instead.
Please! please! don’t let this be another one of your fickle moments or other than your primary personality emailing me upon impulse. Please stick to what you have said here!
I wish you and Ken the best.
Diane
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Diane
I tried to stop the friendship with Mitch many times because I wanted to avoid getting too close with Mitch and vice versa, you call it being “fickle, multiple personality and over reacting” I call it being considerate to other human beings but if you want I can stop considering your feelings and I can give Mitch a call and we can start our new life together. Is that what you want?
I’m different than you not “in many ways” but in every way that two people could possible be and I’m so glad and thankful for that.
What could I provide Mitch that you can’t provide? I can provide him unconditional love. When I love some one I’m willing to communicate. When I love some one I’m willing to sacrifice, I’m willing to put the other person first. When I love some one I spend time with that person, I love, I laugh, and I dream with that person. I give my all to that person, my soul, my body, my mind. I forgive and forget. When I love some one I’m willing to admit that I’m not perfect but that I’m willing to do everything that I can to be a better person for him.
I would never try to convince Mitch that things are going to be “dreamy” if we were together. Stop treating Mitch like a 12 year old that doesn’t know anything. He has a brain and can make decisions on his own. I have not and would not try to convince him to do anything and he would not let that happen. I don’t think that you know your husband that well. We are both mature people that know how difficult things would be for us and for every person involved in this situation. And that’s why I’m willing to walk away from Mitch. Not because I’m not willing to go through all the pain but because I don’t want your kids and mine to go through it.
YOU don’t know me, don’t judge me.
Persy