Jessica Alexis Anaya — Beware Of Person Who Will Play The Victim Then Accuse You Of Victimization If You Cross Her. I know this person. I’m a former friend. She is very charismatic. She has a lot of sob stories, seems really nice. After awhile it became clear to me that in every situation she was always the victim. I still felt bad for her. Then it got to the point where if I set a boundary with her or didn’t do or act how she wanted, she started to accuse me of abusing her. She has accused several exes of abuse, publicly. Physical, emotional, you name it. Then anyone who doesn’t burn those exes at the stake is outed as the sympathizer of abusers. There is no end to what she’ll do to destroy anyone’s reputation who crosses her or tells her no. She is very unpredictable. She changes names a lot. She presents herself as a loving mother and doesn’t even have her kids. I honestly really cared for her but realized quickly that she has some severe problems and is very vindictive. Be very careful of her. Basically if you piss he off she will defame you. She likes to fight and cause drama. She became very unpredictable and scary. It was safer to stay away. She will accuse you of victimizing her so just be very careful. I love her and hope she gets the help she needs, but she should be avoided until she gets some help.